It's quite wrong that I discovered this only recently but I have always thought it was perfectly normal to "distant" from your friends a little once in a while, not intentionally of course. There is nothing wrong with not being in touch with your friends 24/7. But months? Well, it's still alright, to me at least.
Coming to think of it, I have always thought it was them who distant away from me cos in the first place I hardly call them and it was always them calling me. But it is really them? I didn't put in any effort in trying to contact them so maybe that's why they go away?
Or probably I am too absorbed in my own doings and thoughts to notice that they have given out signs to show that they needed me? I don't know....
I always thought I make myself available to them and they would come to me when they need me... maybe I didn't do enough to let them know that. Maybe I gave out signs to show that they're not welcomed...
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Maybe... it's just me....
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p.s. another pointless post triggered by a stupid dream I had last night
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