I have noticed something in my friends. They have all changed when they fall in love. Some changed themselves to suit their partners, some changed for their partners and some changed without knowing it.
Love opens many opportunities. Being in love make us want to try new things. We dare to do things we never dare to.
Sometimes, we changed too much without realising it. We do things that never thought we would. Some are good, but some are bad too. However most time, the parties involved do not realize it. It is the outsider who notices it.
From my personal experience, I've neglected my friends when I fell in love. But eventually, I've regained enough balance between them and was able to put them together on the same spot. But before that happened, many ill feelings went by between me and my friends. At the end, I found out the meaning of friendship. My friends stood by me when I was down.
I conclusion, love changes but friendship stays. Cherich those who stood by you cos you would never know when they'd be gone forever...
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I agree with that..and arghhh...do I sound hypocritical now?! *wince*....I hope I didn't change to suit him..T-T..I was trying to just be me.....you have to tell me! if you ever read this! THE HONEST TRUTH! and about the friends..arghh...its really hard to balance...and I really suck at multi-tasking..I'm so sorry..I felt so guilty...I mean if you really feel that my change was for the worst or smth ....argh..I'm really sorry....I seriously am..
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